#02 A Time to Bloom

Anais Nin was an essayist who was once quoted as saying, "and the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom."

We all know about change. First, it's inevitable. In fact, the only thing that doesn't change, is change itself. Secondly, we have two choices. We can resist it and suffer, or go with it and grow.

Resisting it comes from the natural human emotion of fear of the unknown. After all, we've feathered our nests with routine, even people, things and circumstances we've outgrown seem to be still a part of our comfort zone. However, not unlike a worn-out pair of shoes, there comes a time for something new.

Dr. Michael Beckwith is among the pioneers in the self-awareness movement. He introduced the practice of visioning. He often said, "the pain pushes until the vision pulls." When we think about that, it's a great way to express your need to move forward, to grow, and to explore new possibilities.

As a matter of fact, have you ever resisted change and remained content? I mean especially those of us over 50. Remember when cell phones broke into the market? How many of us said something like, "I don't need one of those new-fangled gadgets!"? Look at you now... where's your phone?

All of life blooms. Everything in its own time. As human beings we are part of and one with all life. Our need to bloom is internal and eternal. It is our birth right, and our soul duty to do so. You'll know when it's time when you feel off or unfulfilled and you STOP... become still, evaluate your current station and listen to your heart. If something is suggesting change somewhere in your life, start envisioning the possibilities. Then feel the corresponding emotions, and if it feels right, opportunities will begin to parade by for your consideration. Now you get to co-create a piece of your life by intention, rather than by default.

Remember, sometimes change is thrust upon us when we least expect it and its effects appear traumatic, and you've got to deal. If you practice "blossoming" from time to time, even if the changes are small, you'll have an easier time dealing with the unexpected.